Having said all that, I am planning to kick this off by starting with Proverbs 31:10-31, the virtuous women. One of the goals I have set for myself this year is to become a more virtuous woman. This week I am going to start with the first 2 verses of this section, verses 10 and 11:
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he
shall have no need of spoil.
These words say to me that a virtuous woman is much more valuable than precious gems and that in order to be a virtuous woman, a wife must have her husband's trust. If he trusts her, he will have no reason to stray. The trust I am speaking of is deeper that just trusting her to stay loyal, but that he can trust her to keep his secrets as well. My goal for this week is to work on being a more trustworthy wife. Here is how I plan to do that:
- Be more aware of my interactions with other men, to ensure that nothing I am saying or doing can be misconstrued as flirting.
- Make sure that I am not speaking ill of my husband to others. If we have a disagreement, that is between us and is not anyone else's business. I will not run to my friends/sister/mother/facebook and air our dirty laundry.
- I will also keep my husband's business to myself. If others want to know about his medical care or how he is handling school, they will have to ask him. Of course, I will not be rude about it, but I will only speak positively and will not disclose personal information about my husband.
I am hoping to continue on next week with an update of how this week went as well as moving on to the next verse (12). How do you interpret these verses? How will you (or for my male readers, how can your wife) build up your husband's trust in you?,